"People know when they’re being eye-fucked. Flirting with someone nonverbally on public transportation is a delicate dance of exchanging glances that contain promises and ignite the erotic imagination. You can tell when someone is disinterested in your eye-fucking because they act disinterested in your eye-fucking."
yeah there are a lot of fish in the sea but how many have low standards
"I asked all of the gay male students in the room to raise their hand if in the past week they touched a woman’s body without her consent. After a moment of hesitation, all of the hands of the gay men in the room went up. I then asked the same gay men to raise their hand if in the past week they offered a woman unsolicited advice about how to “improve” her body or her fashion. Once again, after a moment of hesitation, all of the hands in the room went up.
These questions came after a brief exploration of gay men’s relationship to American fashion and women’s bodies. That dialogue included recognizing that gay men in the United States are often hailed as the experts of women’s fashion and by proxy women’s bodies. In addition to this there is a dominant logic that suggests that because gay men have no conscious desire to be sexually intimate with women, our uninvited touching and groping (physical assault) is benign."
"I had a dream the other night that I was playing for Villa in the relegation battle, Centre Half I was, and then that ugly little argentine for Man City came towards me and I had no choice but to go flying in with a crunching tackle on him. All of a sudden I heard [his girlfriend] screaming and I’d actually more or less kicked her out bed. I just rolled over and went back to sleep I did… I got the ball"
weekly dad-skype, always a treat (via tonylast)